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Handjobs instead of oral sex?

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Question - (30 March 2009) 4 Answers - (Newest, 31 March 2009)
A female age 30-35, anonymous writes:

okay 1st off idk if this is weird but i love giving my boyfriend blowjobs. not just bc i know he wants it but because i just love doing it and it massively turns me on. but anyway what i want to know is, how often is it "normal" to give them? cause for months i just did handjobs cause oral isn't something i just give out like candy and i would only do it for someone i love, and i love my bf. but now that i've started doing it should i just do that in place of handjobs? bc i TOTALLY wouldn't mind doing that. i just don't want to seem weird. like idk if that's normal. plus i don't want him to get bored of it if i do it every time we fool around.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (31 March 2009):

No, he'll never get bored with 'em ;-). BUT, no reason to quit the handjobs as well - they're fun too, right? Each makes a great way to start him off right, so use both and enjoy :-).

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A male reader, DoubleM United States +, writes (31 March 2009):

DoubleM agony auntAs long as your boyfriend is also pleasing you with orgasms, then pleasing him with your blowjobs is fine. As "Cerberus" mentions, he will probably never get bored with that, and there are a variety of ways to perform fellatio. But you should also be sexually satisfied as well.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (30 March 2009):

Trust me, he'll never get bored of it.

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A female reader, bobbles32 Canada +, writes (30 March 2009):

bobbles32 agony auntWhatever works for you two is normal. There is no set number for anything.. Normal is what you want it to be. Just try not to give them too often so he doesn't take you for granted! and switch it up once and a while, guys like that!

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