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anonymous
writes:Well there's this guy and I like him A LOT. We're not friends, but we've spoken to each other and stuff. He used to act like he liked me but then he dated this girl and now they're together.But even though their together, he still stares (when his gf's around he just glances from time to time) and when I catch him looking, he'll look away really fast like "Oh no, she caught me!" and wouldn't stare at me until he thinks I'm not looking anymore. This afternoon, when we were going home, he glanced at me, as if to see if I was still looking (because before that, we exchanged glances) and when he saw me staring at him, he turned away and turned slightly pink. Whether it was because of the cold or something else, I'm not sure.He's not doing anything to hurt his gf, and I know for a fact that he isn't a player - or the type to intentionally hurt a girl's feeling.But what should I do about it?His girlfriend is actually a bit standoffish around him and she glares at me when I'm not looking.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 March 2009): Well, he has a girlfriend, and he is a guy so he is going to look at a pretty girl, but it doesn't mean that you should do anything about it....respect that he is in a relationship, and when he isn't maybe he will stare at you more intently and actually speak to you and get to know you.
For now it is just a fantasy in your mind and nothing more...because he is with her because he wants to be.
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