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41-50,
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writes:I finally ended my year and a half relationship with my gf. I have done the best I can. I brought her along with me on Saturday night with my friends to a local festival. I knew this would be the make or break. I warned her about her behavior from the last time she flew into a jealous rage. Sure enough this weekend was even worse. She verbally and physically attacked me in the bathroom at my friends house following the festival. I was actually screaming at the top of my lungs to get her away from me. She slammed me against the door and cursed and swore at me. The music downstairs was too loud and no one heard me. She blocked the door so I couldn't exit. It was like being trapped in hell. It pretty much summed up my relationship with her. Being held prisoner. She was drunk and foul, and I hated her at that moment. I told her she would no longer terrorize me. It was over and I was finished dealing with her bs. She left the bathroom angry with me, I went outside and hopped in a cab alone. She is a mean drunk, she is overpowering, annoying, obnoxious, and a legend in her own mind. I haven't spoken to her since. I dropped her things off in her porch the next morning along with her house key, and got out of there before she knew i was there. She has things belonged to me, but they are simple things that can be replaced. She phoned 3 times yesterday, and sent me a text message apologizing for the night before. I didn't repond. In case you are wondering why she was angry. A girl that is a friend spoke to me for 2 minutes while we were sitting on the sofa. My gf believes I am sleeping with this girl because i made a comment about a picture of her on facebook over a year ago. I'm NOT sleeping with her. Does anyone think I handled this okay?
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 March 2009): Well, duh. If you need confirmation that you should have left her, you will get that telling that story. She sounds unstable. I'm always advocating for both sides of the story, but whatever. If she's so terrible and you can't stand to be with her, then yes, of course you should have left her :)
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (30 March 2009):
 Absolutely. You are lucky you've escaped the little shrew. Now you are foot loose and fancy free to find a non-psycho. Best of luck!
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