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writes:I fell in love with my best friend last year, and ever since it's just been really hard to cope because she has a boyfriend. She knows I love her because I told her before, but this didn't affect our friendship.A couple of weeks ago, her boyfriend and her had some problems. In that mean time, she and I got much closer, and I showed her more affection than a friend just would.She leaned on me for everything, and we were so close...Now, she resolved the problems with her boyfriend. I told her how hard it was for me to cope not being with her, not being able to sleep at night or anything. I basically told her how much I loved her again.Now she won't talk to me and shes just getting mad/angry instead of trying to help. She says we need to stop talking then I'll feel better.Now that I think about it, she was the best friend I ever had, and our friendship was the best thing that ever happened to me. I can't even live life without her being there.How can I get her friendship back? How do I bring everything back to normal?
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 March 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionUpdate:
A friend of mine (and hers) swore to God that he talked to her a while back. According to him, she does like me but just feels like I'm rushing things because she already has a boyfriend. According to him, she actually does "love" me and likes hanging out with me. This friend of mine told me this tonight, after who knows how long.
By the way that she acted with me, I always thought something was up but she denies it.
So I'm giving her space now, should I let her call me after a while or should I call her sometime soon? How soon?
Last time we had a stupid argument, she didnt talk to me for a week but then texted me one morning.
Do you think she would just forget me so soon? If she says that we shouldn't talk anymore, do you think she would eventually contact me somehow?
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