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41-50,
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writes:I think it was written in stone that I was meant to be alone because I never got asked in my teens and my 20s. Now heading for my 30s, I think I was always meant to be alone. If you think about it, it's true. I never had a boyfriend, it's just too hard. Kissing and sex is too far fetched for the likes of me. Guys I know I mean all of them, they shallow or else boring or a safety pen. I am not being fussy either. There is nowhere to go where I live, I mean nowhere. I have no friends male or female. There is no social life in town ,no gym, no nightlife at all. I have bebo site but nobody visits. Life is very lonely having no friends and no boyfriend ever.I never saw in all born days that I thought I never had a boyfriend ever. Never saw myself as an old maidor being lonely. I am feel I am too old for romance and any guy I meet are into other girls and always comment on them in front of me or oggling them in front of me.Men like beauty, youth not an old hag like me. It's hard to get used to being old maid, always being loner and a social misfit, guys just hate guys that liked me or I think he likes me said that I was a bitch because he asked me out and I rejected him I think. I didn't know what it was to be asked out, what it meant. I thought he was making fun of me because I am overweight, short, chubby face, wear black glasses, plain jane because he was always out with size 8 beauty's, tall blonde, he had bites on his neck. I think I might have hurt his feelings without realizing it. Now he said I was bitch to him but I didn't mean to be but that was 6 long years ago.
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reader, DeserveMore  +, writes (30 March 2009):
 We are what we think about all day long...Start thinking about what you want to be and have and believing in your ability to get it... instead of what you don't and the obstacles facing you.I bet you have so many GORGEOUS qualities-- you have simply been beaten down. Even the most gorgeous have been there, sister!Through off your encumberments and decide to be your own best friend. People (including men) gravitate to those who are happy and having a good time on their own - not those who are simply looking for someone to rescue them from unhappiness.Take responsibility for your own happiness.I have a feeling that you have way more going for you than you realize... Literally, the hairs are standing up on my arm and I am not a hairy person-- LOL--- Take heart--- the winds of change are blowing your way... I can feel it! Embrace it! Leave that crummy town---- Pack what you have in a suitcase and be GONE---- onward and upward--- it can only get better, right?
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reader, loving arms +, writes (30 March 2009):
slow down............. while your self esteem is so low it will be difficult to meet someone because you are refusing to believe that someone could be interested in you.
Where on earth do you live if you have no friends nothing? Haveyou got a job?
If no job then you can always do voluntary work. This would get you out meeting people and maybe once you build a friendship circle then you'll realise friends can be found and your happiness might make you see the good in other people (men)
Good luck there is someone for everyone
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