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writes:hey everyone i wanna ask a cruel question here...please bear with me ....i am being cruel to be kind to someone i care a lot....how should a guy get rid of a girl who is very affectionate, sentimental and emotionally attached to him ? what if that guy is everything for her and they are in touch 24/7 and badly addicted to each other ? i know it is very mean and it is heart wrenching here too ...thanks for your time ....kind replies please ...i am not mean trust me! Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 March 2009): Think of her as your daughter! Will you want to get rid of your daughter?
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reader, bobbles32  +, writes (30 March 2009):
 Be brutally honest, if you're too nice about it she'll still hold hope..but why are you breaking up with her? If you really want her in your life? Maybe you could take a little break..get some alone time?
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reader, Anil D  +, writes (30 March 2009):
 friends i am the person who asked this question ...actually the thing is that this relationship is a bit too risky and has no future i guess...but i want her presence in my life even as a friend as i cant think of my life without her ..... i am her soul and everything she says ....she cant bear it even when we dont talk for a couple of hours because she madly loves me and expects me to love her the same way....but i have been disappointing her and this really turns her down ...i am myself sick of it now and want to come out of it without hurting her too much!
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 March 2009): i agree with eyes. Be respectful of her feelings and tell her.
it will hurt you lots - but it will hurt her more.
be honest and be strong.
Star.x.
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reader, Kepi  +, writes (30 March 2009):
 The question that I have to ask is, why, if you are both badly addicted to each other is it that you have to split up? Anyway, check out www.bbc.co.uk/relationships they have an excedllent section on this sort of thing.
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (30 March 2009):
 Just be honest with her and don't leave any loose strings behind. Tell her that your feelings have changed about the relationship and you both need to move on with your lives. Be very clear so she doesn't have any false hopes that you will get back together. It is painful on both sides of a break up but it is just part of life.
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