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My friend & I both like the same boy..but I liked him first!

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Question - (30 March 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 30 March 2009)
A female United Kingdom age 26-29, anonymous writes:

hey, i know this might sound like a problem basically every teenager goes through but i wanted to right in cos i really don't know what to do. i really really like this boy, and i finally plucked up the courage to tell him i did, about 2-3 weeks ago. it was awkard for a couple of days, but now we're back to normal, and acting like he doesnt know, which is good. he is actually the kindest boy i've liked, he's nice to me and we can have a laugh and we're able to speak and that. but he'd never go out with me, because i am one of the ugliest girls at my school i think? my problem is; i'd like it to go further. i once liked a boy for 14months and never told him, i dont want that to happen again, which is why i told him. but i dont want it to just carry on like he doesnt know? the other problem is, i found out another friend of mine likes this boy too? my friend is also very pretty and he and her are quite close as well. she now knows i like him, but the thing is, i think i liked him first and it isn't very fair:(? i dont know what to do - my life NEVER seems to progress.

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A female reader, bobbles32 Canada +, writes (30 March 2009):

bobbles32 agony auntWell if he knows that you like him and hasn't told you that he likes you back or hinted about it then he probably doesn't feel the same.

If your friend keeps chasing him after you told her you liked him then she isn't a real friend and i'm sure you can find a new one.

If she's willing to jeopardize your friendship for a guy then let her, just don't lend your shoulder to her when he breaks her heart, too.

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