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writes:Ok so for sex, you wait about 4-8 months if you are looking for something serious. Hopefully by that time you have developed a close attachment to where the sex would add to the relationship. What about for oral and other kinky acts?? Do yo wait for 5 dates or 2 months etc?? I'm 26 and am looking for a relationship that will eventually go somewhere. I don't want to put out to soon and just be a piece of ass. Guys I would love an honest opnion. Girls comments are more than welcomed. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 March 2009): If you are looking for a relationship I say just go with the flow. Don't do anything sexual until you feel you know the person well enough to know they aren't just being fake so that you will put out. Once you have been dating for a couple of weeks I would say, then you know each other much better. But like I said, whenever it feels right. I slept with my boyfriend for the first time after about 4 months, we did foreplay etc after about 2 months but I didn't give him a blow job until a few months after because I wasn't comfortable with that yet. We've now been together for a year and a half, just do what works for you :)
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reader, the_phoenic  +, writes (30 March 2009):
i agree on kellyxxx ,
and i would like to add,
dont let any guy feels that you are easy because,
no man wants an easy girl to be his wife
because hard girls usually dont cheat
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reader, Harry Castle +, writes (30 March 2009):
 Kelly is quite right.
Where on earth did you get this timetable idea from?
As for putting out, as you call it; that's no way to view a relationship.
It should be something you both want and enjoy, not something you choose to offer and him to earn.
Sex and sex play are not bargaining counters for women to hold and men to earn - where's the respect in that?
I hope that you have a long and successful relationship, but with your mind-set, I doubt it.
Harry.
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reader, kellyxxx +, writes (30 March 2009):
 I think you should do it when it feels right instead of putting a time limit on it.just go with the flow! My boyfriend and I had sex two weeks into our relationship (we'd known each other only 4 weeks) and I'm still with him! We've been together nearly 3years! We knew we were right for each other.x
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