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30-35,
*francy
writes:My ex has made it clear that he is seeing some else because he cannot trust a girl who cheated on him with a cousin (I mean I cheated on him with a cousin)! the thing is I want him back and am really sure.. he asked me to suggest something that the two of us must do to make up but I do not have any idea of what we must do.. I know he still feels something for me even though it might be hard for him to trust me again. He told me it hurts deep inside to be deceived by a gal that he loved so much(me) and I do agree with him on a point but I think if you love someone with all your heart it is easy to forgive and forget... but you know what! He told he can only forgive but forgetting is something he will never do. How should I convince him to forgive and forget our pasts...?
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reader, francy +, writes (31 March 2009):
francy is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanx my frinends. we have only dated for a year..
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reader, dumpling  +, writes (30 March 2009):
You say he is with someone else is this the reason you want him back?
I belive you can forgive but you never forget,and if you cheated once he will be weary to start up again with you.
If he cheated on you would you forgive and forget so easily my guess is NO.
If you both do give the relationship another go be prepared for it being bought up when you have a disagreement cos it will no matter how hard the one who never cheated tries.
I am curious to how long were you together before you cheated on him?
Good luck
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reader, bobbles32  +, writes (30 March 2009):
 He's never going to forget that you broke his trust.. It's not even easy to forgive. You're lucky if he says he can forgive you. Perhaps set up a romantic date and surprise him.
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