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36-40,
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writes:Cutting to the chase, me and this guy were casually seeing each other between October till about mid January. After the middle of January things dwindled off. He called me the day before Valentine's, I didn't pick up so he left a voicemail casually asking if we were still talking. A few hours later I responded via text asking just how he was and bla bla bla...anyways, haven't really heard much of him since, until this past Thursday. He texted me saying something like "hi...you know i still have your earrings..." since I left a pair of earrings over at his place a few months back.So is this just an excuse to talk to me again or does he just want to give me my earrings? I know that he moved sometime between me leaving my earrings there and now, so I would think that most men wouldn't really care if they weren't interested, and it's not like they're an expensive pair of earrings or anything.I just responded with a very passive "ohhh yeah, i should probably pick them up some time" and he hasn't responded since. is he waiting for me to call him? was he just really telling me that i left my earrings there? what is his deal?so i called him today a couple of hours ago and left a casual and nice voicemail hoping he was doing well and asking when a good time to pick my earrings up was. do you think he will get back to me and if he does do you think he will wait a couple of days to do so?
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reader, jessica04 +, writes (30 March 2009):
 I think this is just about earrings, nothing more. He is just being a nice guy who isn't about to throw away earrings that couls possibly have been expensive, and it's not like you two hate eachother, so he has no reason to not give them back.
Be nice, stop reading into it, go get your earrings. If he does mention getting together, then tell him what you think of that idea. If you want to go out with him, then do it, if not then politely decline the invitation. No biggie.
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