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writes: I want to have sex with my friend’s mum. we are both single. I have a thing for my friend’s mum since I was in high school. She is in her 40s and I am 22. I know friend’s mum thinks I am cute as she has said so and has kissed/made out with me at times when my friend was not around. i care for them both my friend and his mum.Since it is his mum should I ask/tell my friend that I want to have sex with my friend’s mum?I don’t want my friend to deny me an opportunity to have sex. He should not tell me who and when I or his mum may have sex with. But would it be good to ask his take since he is a friend? Should I get the ok from my friend? How can I? It may not be a one time thing. Is there a way that I can ensure that it may not be a one time thing if I ask/tell my friend for an opportunity to have sex with my mum? His mum and I may have sex at some point it may be a question of asking/telling my friend before, after or not at all. What can I do to ease his mum of any possible guilt of sex with me her son’s friend? How can I do to give his mum this attractive woman an enjoyable, beautiful, fun, and satisfying sexual experience? What things should I consider in this? Reply to this Question
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reader, ager 4u  +, writes (2 September 2010):
if u are a good friend!!you dont need to do that,,,coz 4me any of as viceversa my friend dad is like my dad.so you to feel also that your freind mum is like your own mum,,,if you do that god give you gift,its just only a temptation.so stay strong
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reader, Main Man  +, writes (6 May 2009):
 you tell your friend that you fancy his mum. Hopefully he will understand & let you see her. Then tell his mum how you feel about her. Just remember that still of child bearing age so use a condom to reduce the risk of you getting her pregnant.
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reader, Jarepy  +, writes (31 March 2009):
I am a 40 year old mother of 3 teens and I am attracted to my 18 year old son's 18 year old team-mate. I have anonymously written him letters, left messages on his phone entailing details of what I want to do to him and what I want him to do to me. However, reality set in when I called him and actually got his voice vs. a voice mail and because I wouldn't tell him who I was, he hung up on me. I quickly realized....Oh my God this is a kid...So, needless to say my infatuation about this guy has vanished and I count it as a mid-life crisis. Whatever you do; DO NOT TELL YOUR FRIEND! You'll surely lose him as a friend forever. It's hard enough for a young man to know that their moms have sex, but to know that their friend wants to have sex with her is totally TABOO! Some guys don't even want their friends talking to or trying to go out with their sisters. You have to weigh the importance of each a possible one-nighter with an older woman or your friendship which is a lifelong commitment.
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 March 2009): No two ways about it.
Beeding a mate's mother is way, way out of bounds.
You have to choose. The mother (a realtionship with whome would most likely only be sexual and given the age difference would almsot never work out in the long run, though there is the slight chance that it would) or your friend.
A good mother will always side with her children, no matter how she feels herself, because it's the right thing to do.
Flynn 24
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reader, Kepi +, writes (30 March 2009):
 Thing how u would feel if a friend came to you and said, 'hey,is it ok if I have sex with your mom, just need you blessing on this'..... hmmmmmmm i reckon you might get a bit of a surprise with the reply and probably lose a friend at the same time.....
There's nothing wrong with two consenting adults having sex, but there are some moral barriers, and where as its not necessarily taboo to have sex with your friends mom, well, just consider the possible outcomes......
Probably best that you forget this idea, or, if you do decide to progress with it, be EXTREMELY careful for your friend and his moms sake..... would he ever forgive for going off with one of his friends?????
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 March 2009): How does this woman feel about you and the fact that you are her sons friend? My suggestion would be to tread carefully.
Speak first to the mum. If she thinks you should go ahead, you need to both speak to your friend and get his feelings. Obviously he can't tell you what to do, but I think you would be an awful friend (and she an awful mother) for going ahead if he tells you it makes him feel uncomfortable. And frankly, who wouldn't?
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reader, bobbles32  +, writes (30 March 2009):
 I agree. You'll probably lose your friend.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 March 2009): Is your friend more important than just a quick leg-over? If you have sex with his Mum then there is a strong possibility that you will lose him as a friend forever. If you ask his permission, surely his answer would be, "YES, I MIND!". If you think you can do it in secret then chances are that it will get out some day. It's up to you. What's more important?
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