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30-35,
*ama2be
writes:hi everyone. my fiance and his little brother just passed away. me and my best friend are supposed to speak at his funeral. they are having two separate funerals, and i am supposed to speak at them both. i have no idea what to say. right now i cant even think. Any tips on what to say, how to start it off, how to end it, what its about? and also, how come im not crying? i feel so guilty that i haven't really cried yet.
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reader, AskEve  +, writes (30 March 2009):
 I'm so sorry to hear about your loss, can I ask what happened? How did they die?
~Eve~
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reader, cry +, writes (30 March 2009):
 im so sorry you dont have to speak if you dont want to, but if you do maby you can start out with saying how wonderful he was, his smile will be with us always, the things he was good at, he will be missed, what we have learned from him what has he taught you ......how to draw really good, how to cook a great meal,what ever it was that he left behind with everybody he has toutched us all, and he will be missed he will go on in my heart ,mind and my soul youll get the vibe.......my sister had passed christmas '06 theres alot of things i regret so one thing ive learned she taught me is to [live life day by day]there may be no tomorrow for you or anybody i still miss her ,............he will not be forgotton i will always love him, just say positive things about each of them .
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reader, SweetSerendipity +, writes (30 March 2009):
First of all, I am sorry to hear of this very sad news. Losing someone you love is always hard on anyone.
You don't need to say a lot of things to the person who is experiencing the loss. Anything that comes from the very bottom of your heart, is fine. If you feel sad, tell them that a lot of people/friends also feel the loss. And you will be there if he needs a hug or to talk. Tell him that his little brother has marked his place in the world just by being his cute loveable kid himself, and that is how he will be remembered.
Btw, I am not going to comment on your age group [though I do think that you at 13-15 you seem a bit young to be engaged].
Be strong, sweetheart!
Jas
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