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writes:Hi everyone. I'm a 46 year old lady and I fancy my 26 year old gardener. We are always flirting and now I'd like to make a move on him, hopefully get him in my bed. But the thing is, it's been so long since I've done anything like this that I'm not sure how to seduce him. I'm thinking maybe my black dress and no knickers? What does everyone else think? Any ideas?
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reader, SweetSerendipity +, writes (30 March 2009):
If you watched "Desperate Housewives" - I think it was in seasons 1 and 2 - you will see how Eva Longoria-Parker seduces her gardener(s). But, she was married :-(
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 March 2009): You need to make him make the first move so perhaps some overt flirting and physical touch is needed first to test the temperature. Have you mentioned to him your bush needs a trim? You risk humiliating yourself otherwise and although you fancy this guy be warned - he might be rubbish in bed (a bit weedy) and the fantasy was better off as it was. Either way be prepared to lose him as your gardener if things go to seed early - consider whether he is more useful outdoors than indoors. Have you ever read Lady Chatterlys lover? :-)
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 March 2009): Oh how I wish I was your gardner!I'm really really into mature women ('m 22 and am very mature for my age) I've dated a 49 year old woman and we got on great - the sex was out of this world!What I would say is that you tread carefully, has he given you any hints or anything that he is in the least bit remotely attracted to you?
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 March 2009): Just do a makeover on yourself to whatever makes you look HOT (sexy clothes, earrings, hairdo, perfume)!! Men are visual creatures so if that doesn't work then nothing will.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 March 2009): Hi, I'm the original poster. Eyeswdieopen, I'm not married and he's single. Kellyxxx, why is it unlikely that he will fancy me? There's nothing wrong with me!
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (30 March 2009):
 Anybody married or in a permenant relationship here?
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reader, kellyxxx +, writes (30 March 2009):
 What makes you think that he likes you in this way? Does he have a girlfriend???? You need to add more details like this! If he is single then fair enough. Maybe he is just being polite as you are paying his wages. I think its unlikely that he will fancy you so I wouldn't embarrass yourself!
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