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female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes: I have a problem. I dated my ex for 4 and a half years. I worshiped the ground he walked on. We ended up fighting alot in the end of our relationship over stupid things. A lot of which I realize now that I was wroung about. We have been broken up now for about 3 years. I am seeing someone else which I have been seeing since the break up. My boyfriend now still to this day calls my ex my "True Love". In many ways he is right. In my line of work I see my ex alot. I have lunch with his father at least once a month. My daughter loves my ex and on many occasions I have taken her to see my ex behing my now boyfriends back. Everytime I see my ex I get the butterflies. There hasn't been a day that has gone by that I don't wonder if he thinks about me. What should I do? I want to be fair to my now boyfriend. But I also want to be fair to myself. I can't even tell my ex how I feel afraid that he will tell me he doesn't feel the same or that he does. THen what would I do.My ex is the only one I ever saw myself growing old with.
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