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writes:I'm 18 and dating a 40 year old man.. we have been together for 7 months now and I'm completely in love with him! he has a little girl who i love being with.. is it wrong that i'm in love with a 40 year old man?? i hate being away from him at any time.. He feels like he is going to ruin my future.. but he is my future.. any suggestions? oh and my family absolutley love him.. Reply to this Question
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reader, andrike  +, writes (5 April 2009):
just go for it girl if it feels write and u love each other then dont let him go.it better to love some one and be happy for a few years than be with some one for a long time and not be happy at all.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 March 2009): I just wanted to thank everyone who has posted a response.. I was the one who put this up.. It really helps to hear advice from other people!! thank you so much!!!
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reader, SweetSerendipity +, writes (30 March 2009):
Every big-age-difference-couple is unique. As Denny said, don't look for problems [and ya shall see one]. Look for happiness. I have a cousin who is about 20 years older than his wife, and they are happily raising their twins. They have been married for "only" 10 years, and my cousin is looking forward to be a house husband if his wife decided to pursue her career to the fullest (they are both doctors).
Btw, their marriage problems aren't that different from other couples either, e.g. "why didn't you call that you were going be home late", or "why didn't you change the twins' diapers", "you forgot to take the trash out, again", or "I'm tired, I need my sleep". or "you didn't ask how my day was". And if you guessed who said what, you'd probably be wrong LOL
Enjoy the love!
Jas
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 March 2009): I know how you feel. I married a man that was 42 and i was 20. I did everything for him and his three kids. Now we have two kids and are getting divorced. we were married six years and everything was fine and good as long as i stayed home and took care of him, his kids and the house. I got a job when my kids started school and he just so happen thought that was wrong. I love this man with all my heart and i am very independent. Please look at all options before settling down with anyone. I have loved this man since i was 15 years old. He claimed to love me to although at that age we couldn't be together.He loved me so much he put me and our two kids out of our own house and took up the Partying lifestyle. he don't even call to check on us and we are a block away from him. People say it didn't work because of age but thats not it.Good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 March 2009): There's nothing wrong with it at all, so no I have no suggestions. Enjoy yourself and your love.
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