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writes:Dear agony aunts and uncleshere is the situation... last week I had a chat with a high school friend who has been trying to get hold of me... we had nice thoughts until we spoke about dating... so I told him about my life and he told me about his. All of a sudden he was too impressed by how I answered and he fell in love with what I have been telling him... in high school we were friends. He always had a crush on me but I never really entertained it... it has been 10 years now since high school. I met him 5 years ago and we just chatted and reminisced. We were not too close.. it has been the past week that we now talk to each other more than twice a day we email and we sms several times a day, we are both excited and we told ourselves we should try a relationship and see how it turns out.We are both clear of what we want. We live in different cities and now we plan to meet and see where can we take our fantasy further... I am really hooked, he tells me he doesn't wanna scare me off, but the feelings he has inside are quite heavy... I am adapting to such feelings as well and I feel more and more appreciated and infatuated...Do you think this can be worth anything or is it just a fantasy?I want us to make an agreement that when we finally meet next weekend we cannot have sex, but we can spend the weekend together cuddling until we see if this will do us any good... he is still good looking and sexy...
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reader, DeserveMore  +, writes (30 March 2009):
 The things we regret the most in life are the opportunities that we don't take advantage of... not the one's that we did (even if they don't turn out the way that we want).
It could definitely be something- you are both at a point where you know what you want and don't want... it could be instantaneous... or not... but hopefully it will :)
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