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writes: First off, Both of the people mentioned in this are 14, just for a little clarification. I met this girl over the internet. We've know each other for about a year now. We live quite a distance from each other. Far enough at least that it's not feasable for us to see the other until we have our drivers license, So we've never actually MET one another. We're constantly texting, we talk on the phone pretty often, and we get on webcam with each other at least once a week. We've both admitted to the other that we love one another, and that's where the problem lies. We can't see each other for 2 years still. But I still love her all the same. But it's not fair to either of us to have that weight on our shoulders, we should be learning how to be in a relationship, not in a fictaious one. I don't think she feels like we're going out, neither do I, but I couldn't bear to make her feel like she shouldn't have a boyfriend that she can physically What is your advice on this? How can I convince her, that without actually knowing each other, we can't truly love each other, and that she shouldn't feel anchored down?
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reader, Johndoe254 +, writes (30 March 2009):
Honestly that's rough im in the same situation bro I told her we should just be friends until I get down there I'm 17 she's 15 but my girl is almost exactly like me but she makes me happy but one day oh I met this girl on xbox live by the way but one day I told her we should just be friends until I can actually get there in about 8 months I thought she took it well but 4 hours later she stops talking on the microphone and txts me and says you rmember when you said we should just be friends well she got herself a new boyfriend on xbox here she went into my friends list and started asking some of them but we still plan on going out but since I can't see her yet I feel the need to talk to her and when I can't I get bummed out I love this girl I'd like die for her and when I get there which she is 976.6 miles away according to mapquest.com and I dropped outta school for good reasons shit was bad for me there so I won't have a diploma I'm working minimum wage and she told her parents about me but there not to receptive of it actually they think I'm a liar but I just got a job so I can get the money I need I promised her I'd come down and I am but like if you like your girl don't tell her that it's a good way to hurt her and yourself if you both love each other then meet up someday wait for that day to come and when it does savor that moment and enjoy it
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reader, bOy CrAzY;} +, writes (30 March 2009):
Well I'm not trying to be rude but I think that ur both chasing a fantasy like u said:(
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