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writes:I have been seeing this guy from my university for almost a month. We act couple when we are together and he says he thinks I'm so sexy all the time. I asked him what exactly we were and he said that he really likes me and wants to see where this goes. He asked me what I thought and I said I think we're dating and he said I think so too. He spent the night once and we slept together (literally slept, no sex) and just cuddled with each other and talked all night and morning. We then went on spring break and he didnt call me at all and when I finally called him today, he sounded so happy to talk to me and he told me that he has been thinking about me a lot. He is moving into a new house today and told me that he would call me later tonight but still hasn't and its almost midnight. Why isn't he calling? He is really making me really sad :(
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 March 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks for the advice guys but now its morning and still no call. i have been trying to keep busy but i'm still really worried that he is not into me as much as i'm into him :(
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reader, Yos  +, writes (30 March 2009):
 I have two suggestions for you:
1. Stop waiting for his calls. You're placing too much focus on them, and setting yourself up for anxiety and disappointment. Get on with your life and the things you like to do, and enjoy it when he does get in touch. What's more, many guys get commitment anxiety when they realise the girl they are dating is obsessing about things like phone calls, you don't want to freak him out.
2. Explain your disappointment to him, but in a relaxed way. If he says he's going to call, then he should. So either he shouldn't promise a time to call, or he should call you when he says he will
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reader, UncleEd  +, writes (30 March 2009):
I hope he has called by the time you read this!! I feel sure that he will. He has probably been caught up in the whole moving thing. Enjoy the excitement of waiting for him to call! Let us know how you go.
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