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male
age
36-40,
*ander25
writes: My girl and i have been seeing each other for about 7 years i love her very much and would do anything for her. Throughout the seven years we have been through problems with being jealous she treats me like a baby and ask me when im coming home what time and it im a few late she backs me in to a corner she always asks me who i am talking to who is in my phone who am i texting and why or if i sign on the computer to play card she says who are you talking to why are you talking to them its getting to the point where i feel like i dont want to see her and i cant handle all of her questions at once and it makes me frustrated what can i do?
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (30 March 2009):
Of course I'm assuming that you haven't given her any reason for not trusting you. If not then do tell her that she needs to be more trusting. She is very insecure, probably suffers from low self-esteem. I can understand how frustrating this is for you. Maybe a nice chat is called for here. If you truly care about her that is. Tell her how much you love her and enjoy your relstionship BUT she needs to ease up a bit. Tell how stiffling it is to be around such an controling person. Hopefully she will relax so you can relax.
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