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Why do relationships fall apart?

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Question - (30 March 2009) 3 Answers - (Newest, 5 April 2009)
A female United States age 41-50, anonymous writes:

How can I spend five years with my boyfriend, and he not give two sh**s about me? My boyfriend, who I live with, just left me at a restaruant, 20 miles away from home. With no cell phone, no money, nothing.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (5 April 2009):

thats horrible!! i actually had something happen to me as well. but he left me in a different state. anyways what i did to over come this was just look past it and realize if a guy did this to you then he is not worth it. your speacil in every way you desereve something much better. i know its hard to beleve that after all that you went though he goes up and leave but what i always say "if its meant to be it will be."

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A reader, anonymous, writes (30 March 2009):

OMG listen if Damluvsaam cant get to you I will be there! What a jerk! PLEASE move on from this man!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (30 March 2009):

feelings changed and people get sick of one another and people just generally dont like feeling or being in a "routine" these people ARE NOT "IN LOVE" WITH THE PERSON THEY ARE IN A RELATIONSHIP WITH because basically relationships with TRUE LOVE, by unconditional stander eds never fail (these are very rare.. these are the relationships where people meet and grow old togather and still love eachother till the day they die). Im not saying that people in relationships who are not in love dont work, some do but those ones take time and effort to build trust and eventually fall in love, and the rest are just doomed to fail. Heres a example of true love. (condensed version)

One day a man came to visit his sick wife in hospital, later that day i found out that the wife had no memory of her husband yet he came everyday for the pass 20 years to visit her... later that day i asked him, how can you still love her when she doesn't remember who you are or even be in love with you after 20 years? he then replied... because i still know who she is.

that my friend is true love.

good luck with your journey !

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