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writes:I met him 4 months ago the day i met him we've been talking everyday all day thru text and phone call's no exaggeration we just instantly clicked the day after we met i asked him if he has a girlfriend he told me yes i kindaof draw back but it was so all innocent to me(not knowing we were falling for each other slowly) at the time we just really enjoyed conversating with each other (i did not know the girl wasn't on the island) because he gave me unlimited attention and we would see/meet everyday with proberly exception's on Sunday's he went to vist her and he still text me everyday like normal to make a long story short by the the end of the second month he told me he loved me last the first of this month we finally had sex and I told him I love him also..now the issue with him and his girl is really getting to me becuase they've been together this yr would make it 3yr's but she've been away to school their whole relationship and i'm going to school soon and i tried to end it with us but that didn't work so well we're still their he is holding on to their relationship with she as a safety net because he says he feel's comfortable with her and it's scary with me and how he feel's so strongly about me so quickly..i love him really but i don't want to be holding on and i don't know if he'll end up with me
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 June 2009): Well let me tell you I've been with this guy for 3 years on and off and he keeps telling me that he is going to leave his girl but he is never because he loves her I'm not as important as she is he protects her from knowing about me but he dosn't protect me from knowing about her. He values her feelings and dose what she ask he talks to me everyday. but sleeps with her most of the time. He will keep me as long as he can but when I tell him to choose he will walk away from me!!!!!! Same goes for you...... She will never know about you that would hurt there relationship
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reader, QuirkLady  +, writes (9 June 2009):
 Sometimes I wish I wasn't so nice and could bullsh** someone like this guy is doing you. He gets to have two girls chasing after him. What a player!
You're his side piece. If he was really that interested in you he would have broken up with his girlfriend. Forget all that crap about "comfortable" and "being scared". Those are only lines he's feeding you so you don't leave his CHEATING butt. As long as you don't stand up for yourself you'll always be #2.
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reader, bobbles32  +, writes (8 June 2009):
 that is one huuuuge sentence.
Look, you know you shouldn't be doing this with him because he has a gf, imagine how she feels. Imagine how you'd feel he did this to you.
Give him the choice. It's you or her. If he doesn't pick you then you leave him and find someone who cares about you.
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