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writes:when my fiance and go out or have sex i like her to wear sexy clothes. It excites me more during sex, does this make me pervert?
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reader, shehatesmyfetish +, writes (11 June 2009):
shehatesmyfetish is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you bitterblue!! This makes me see things in a whole new light!
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 June 2009): Your username suggests that she isn't happy to help you with your fantasy.Let's see why. Firstly, it is not reasonable to expect her to go into society while wearing see-through outfits that are clearly and strictly for bedroom use. Certain clothings are not designed to be worn in public.Now, if she isn't comfortable with wearing sexy clothes when only you can see her, take these into account: she may simply not be used to such style (is she a tomboy?), or she may have body image issues, she may not like her body (insist on making her feel attractive by complimenting her, make her feel special during love making and not only). This may also have to do with all kinds of preconceived ideas, for example, some women might feel a bit slutty by wearing certain sexy clothes in the bedroom, in which case you should point out that the purpose of these clothes is only to render her perfect feminine lines in a more obvious and provocative fashion which excites you.Tip: Go to a sex shop or a lingerie shop together and buy each other one or two pieces. Make sure the sortiments are well varied and go from subtle and chic to even vulgar. She can then choose to her heart's content and from a wide range. You may also surprise her with a gift box with a nice outfit (do your research and make sure it fits her body shape and style - for example, for small breasts your best choices are bras with ruffles and eye-catching prints, etc) and leave a note to say you pictured her wearing it and it was by far more beautiful with her in it...If the fact she is self conscious about her body makes her reluctant to try the outfits, be patient with her and take it step by step. The key word is reassuring.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 June 2009): It makes her more apealling to you, shes your soon to be wife. It brings more romants to the bed room. I think its normal for any man to want the person there sleeping with look sexy. Going out and about it all depends on where your going. You'll just have to think about her out fits and think is this ok for her to go to the movies, restraurant,shopping,beach/lake, or go out clubbing in that out fit, and ask her how she feels about what she wears where ever. You really aren't specific on what you view sexy as going out and about. A cute out fit, a revieling out fit showing some skin off, a skin tight out fit, or a mixture of everything. It is summer though and a lot of people tend to dress sexy, especially with the heat.
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