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writes:My boyfiend and I met online and in person in Feb 2009We visit monthly, as he is from Canada.He called a lot in the beginning, but now hardly at all. Am I being dumped?How do you know you're being dumped, if you have long distance issues, and life gets in the way?
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reader, Full moon temptress1  +, writes (8 June 2009):
I personally can't stand the not knowing in a problem.If i was you ask him out straight,at least then you will know and move on from that.Good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 June 2009): well, there is not much you can do. Do I think he is moving on and finding an easier solution... Maybe.. you will never know until you ask him.it may just be he is busy or has had things come up. I would personally rather call and just get the answer than sitting and biting my nails. That choice is up to you.good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 June 2009): If you've only known him since February this year and you only meet him monthly, does that mean you have only met him a couple of times? It's possible that he is winding things down, because long distance things are not for everybody. I know I wouldn't be able to meet only once a month. There's no way to know, but you might prepare yourself for it if it happens...
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