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writes:Im kind of a bit worried that my bf still has feelings for his ex? These are the reasons why I think so. When talking about there past relationship, he goes on about how they were so in love and how he made her so happy etc. They only broke up due to distance. So that makes me think, that I am just the concinient choice because I live 5 minutes away from him.I asked him what his favourite song was, and he sent it to me and when listening to the lyrics I realised the song was about a guy missing his long distance gf!! Obviously he relates the song to his ex.I feel like I have to be in competition with her. Im only 19 years old and my bf is 25. His ex was alot older then him- 30. He said he doesnt usualy date younger girls like me, because he prefers older women because they are 'experienced' (and by that i think he means sexually because when i questioned him about that he didnt deny thats what he meant). We havent had sex yet, we havent even talked about it yet, but i know it will come up sometime soon and im soo afraid he will dump me because im not ready for a sex yet. I want to wait longer until we have known each other longer, so i can be sure, we will last long. But im afraid he wont want to wait. Hes always had sex with his previous ex gfs quite early on in there r/ships. And it seems to be quite important to him, as liek i previously said he likes older women due to their sexual experience, and hes always asking me to sleep over his house. I know he probably wont ever be with his ex (unless one was prepared to move, but he said thats the reason why it ended, neither could leave there jobs, friends, family etc). But I just feel like, im 2nd best.
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