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writes:I have a gf who's a virgin what would the signs be that she is ready to lose her virginity other than saying "I want to lose my virginity"? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 June 2009): If it's a good relationship with good communication, you can trust what she says. But I'd suggest you wait until she says something positive like, "I want to make love with you." "I want to lose my virginity" sounds awfully impersonal-- it implies that she's tired of or embarrassed about her virginity. Better to hear that she's really into you!
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reader, TasteofIndia +, writes (8 June 2009):
 She's given you the go: "I want to lose my virginity". But, if you want to really make sure, really let her take initiative. You can start things, by kissing her, taking off clothes, etc. But let her really be the leader and direct things. Make sure that you're asking her every step of the way, "is it okay if I...?" or "would you like me to...?", to be sure that she's still into things. And look for body language - if she freezes up, stops making noise or seems really uncomfortable take that as a sign that she's just not into things and that this should wait.
Make sure that you carve out an evening for the process, do dinner, make it romantic, light a candle, get some Al Green on the radio and go for it, Tiger. You sound very considerate - good for you!
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reader, CherryCupcake  +, writes (8 June 2009):
When you get close she'll wont push you away, she will get wet enough naturally and altho it may be a bit of a tight squeeze it doesnt mean she isnt ready.
I think its really nice youre being careful with her but chances are, if shes said it, she means it.
Good luck x
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