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female
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51-59,
anonymous
writes:My boyfriend of 8 months whom i thought we were quite serious- now tells me is overly stressed with his life and can't handle any extra stress including me. He said were weren't breaking up but he is not talking to me at all except about 1x a week briefly and that is if I contact him first. I can tell he doesn't want me to contact him at all so I have stopped. He also said he is not sure about 'us' and he can't answer right now if he wants us to stay together or not. It has been over 3 weeks now. I am driving a vehicle he owns and he pays my cell phone bill and has not tried to change that situation yet. He does live 2 1/2 hrs away too. He is 45(divorced 3 yrs) and I am 39(divorced 1 yr) with 2 children that live with me full time. Is it obvious he is done with me and trying not to hurt my feelings or could he really be just 'waiting' until he can get a better 'grip' on his life? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 June 2009): sweety i believe he moved on.. you need to forget him. he isn't worth it. If you wait for him again, he's gonna keep doing it over and over again until he really hurts your feeling, break your heart worstly. he already breaks your heart as you can see. Just forget about him now once and for all. Good luck.
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