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writes:Im pretty young to be in the situstion im in. Falling in love at 15 wasn't my plan nor my parents. I have been with my boyfriend for 1 year 1/2. I commited my self at such a early age. My parents both love him dearly. But he's older then me which might just be my problem here. I myself don't hold relationsship more then 2 weeks. So it was very suprising to me and my family after 1 month. my boyfriend is the same way. We both relized after a short period of time our personlitys are VERy similar his relationship also don't last more then 2 weeks. We think alike. We are both stubborn. We both don't like being alone we always need someone by our side. ETC. Just EVERYTHING. If you see it in me you see it in him. we heard it from several people. Well anyways. He has been acting totally weird around me I only get a call from him once a day now. He use to call me all the time his breaks his lunch before he went into work right when he got out. We NEVER use to be apart for a whole year 1/2 its been me and him all the time never seprated. He went I went I went he went. My friends and his friends got very upset. The guy who lived with my boyfriend actually moved out because he was botherd of it. Me and my boyfriend been throught soooo much in this year and a half. We have been throught it all. People trying to break us up my parents trying to call the cops. People making up rumors so we will get mad at each other and be apart for at least 1 day everything. I have been in the hospital 3 times while with him. The first time I was in a car accident 3 hours from where I live that's when my parents and him met for the first time. Secoud another accidnt and third I had surgery. He was there all there times. The third time was the worse I stayed in there for 3 and half days and not one minutes went by that he wasn't there holding my hand next to my bad. He skipped work to stay with me. All of us me my my dad and his mom all tried getting him to go to work but he refused. When I got out of the hospital he was there at all times. Helping me get in the car helped me get out. help me get in bed and out. Getting me what I need Just everything he made me feel so good. But after I was good too go which has been recently everything turned around around the same time everything happen with his music going big. He does music. He records other people which is a big break in our relationship cause when he is recording other people it during "US" time. He is kinda going up there now. He has a producor who makes beats for him and his friend. who by the way made their producer made beats for little wayne and kanye west and them all he also a photograph person. But every since this all hapen is when he started acting strange like his too good for me. I just think he is cheating on me maybe because he thinks he is gonna be up there now and he don't need the old stuff in his life he needs to get new stuff since everything else in his life has been turning around. I don't know what to do no more he hurts me he talks to me like im a no body he don't awnser my calls. when we are together we hardly talk. I don't feel comfortable around him I feel like I shouldn't be the once sleeping over with him and comforting him with my love. Have you ever seen those movies when a husband is cheating on his wife with a co worker and he tells the girl he is cheating on his wife with that he is gonna divorce his wife for her. But like at the end the cheating husband and the co workers relationship goes down hill and feels akward after he does her... well that's what I feel like I feel like he is cheating on his girlfriend with me and there is nothing there beside sex but it isn't sex cause we haven't had sex for a long while so its kinda just like there's nothing there beside the comfort of me being beside him while sleeping. We don't touch each other till we are ready to go to sleep. What can be out problem?
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 June 2009): AUTHOR- What I met by that is when we first started going out I told my parents he way 16 & later on they found out because of his myspace. They did want to till they meet for the first time when I was in the hospital when he came running to my house at 5 in the mroning. After that day I told my parents the truth.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 June 2009): i think your taking the relationship more seriosly then her is and scince he is older then he has other things going on
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 June 2009): I dont get it. You said your parents love him dearly. .yet they call the cops on him? I think this post may be fake.
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