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writes:I've liked this girl that goes to my school for a long time. We've never really had a serious relationship..but i can't get my mind off her!...we are good friends and she's always nice to me and stuff. She just doesn't seem to want to consider me as more than that. What do I do?? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 June 2009): yeah, sorry mate, that's someth=imes just the way it goes... It happened to me a couple of weeks back. My advice to you is to either ask if she is interested at all with you, or try to move on... I know that sounds harsh, but it's the truth of the matter. Sometimes that feeling can just overwhelm us, and when we're told they don't feel it back, it sucks so badly. Just try not to think about her, maybe just spend a couple of days not spending too much time with her... I know the feeling you have, and it sucks to break, but the best thing to do now is move on.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 June 2009): Honey you just can't waste your time away on someone who doesn't want it. If you've not asked her if she's interested and you are just assuming, then you need to ask her. She may be waiting for you to make a move or she may be not interested, as you percieve. If her answer is "no," then continue being friends with her to the best of your ability, but move on. At that point, there is simply nothing you can do, becuase as well all know, you cannot and should not change yourself to make one person like you.
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