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female
age
36-40,
*eahorse
writes:I am so in love with my boyfriend, I do so much for him, I go out of my way for him, I hang out with his friends, I tell him how much he means to me and how I can't wait to spend the rest of my life with him. My boyfriend however does nothing for me, he never tells me he loves me, unless I say it to him first. He spends every waking minute with his friends, he plays XBOX all day and is constantly in XBOX Live chats, he doesn't get to bed until 6am most nights, and I find it very hard to sleep without him. I feel really really depressed, I feel unloved, unwanted, I have told him how I feel, I have let him know that I would like some 'alone time' with him and he shouts at me, tells me no! and to 'shut up' and that I have 'issues' Every single day it is the same. I really dont know what to do, because even though he treats me badly I am still inlove with him and I don't want to break up, I really don't know what to do.Please help me, I am at the point of depression.
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reader, always.you  +, writes (9 June 2009):
 you dont deserve to be talked to by that you should leave
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reader, QuirkLady +, writes (9 June 2009):
 Wow, this relationship sounds seriously one-sided.
I think you need to spend some time on your own and give your boyfriend time to miss you. Perhaps he will see once you're gone how much value you bring to his life. Spend time with other friends, go out and meet some new people, have some fun.
If he doesn't change you need to remove yourself from this relationship. Nobody deserves to be shouted at and told they have issues every single day. You deserve to be treated with respect.
Good luck.
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reader, LOML +, writes (9 June 2009):
 How about trying not to be available all the time
Maybe go hangout with some of your friends have a girls night out somedays get out of the house and then maybe hell start missing you being around so much and maybe even things would chnge 4 the better hope this helps
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