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writes:Okay this is gonna be long so brace yourself.There is this guy that I have a crush on. Sometimes I think he likes me and sometimes I'm not so sure. He is the brother of one of my friends on my soccer team. He is also my soccer coach’s son. At the end of this year I will be 17 and he will be 18. I saw him a while back when my soccer team and his soccer team were having a soccer practise together and I got a ridiculously strong "I like you" vibe from him. Like he would sit beside me when every other time before this he would stand a little bit away except for the one time when there wasn't enough room so he walked up on the stage where, out of the corner of my eye, I could see him looking at me. With his past behaviour, he had always seemed uncomfortable and quiet around me, but this last time when we were sitting beside each other he seemed really comfortable and at ease, you know, laughing, talking and joking around with his mom and sister. Something he never used to do when I was around. And before this, whenever I would say something, he would kinda ignore me or pretend that he hadn't heard me, but this time everything I said got a response of some sort, he would either answer me, comment on what I said or laugh or chuckle. When we were leaving the practise, he half heartedly fought his sister for the front seat but then gave up without much of a fight. This was unusual because I had seen them fight over the front seat before, and he fought much harder. He almost always won. Could this have possibly been because I was going to be sitting in the back seat?I also recently had a soccer practise with him. I didn't get as many signs as before, but I think I felt the vibe. I am still not 100% sure (though I will probably never be) that he isn't just being friendly. There were actually more things that he did but if I put everything in the length of this question would have been ridiculous. So I just put the most important stuff. And yes, I realize that I am totally over analyzing this situation. It's just that I really really like this guy! And if you knew what he was like before you would know that he was like a totally different person these last few times. This was the first time he actually showed some interest. He is shy and so am I so that is a potential problem as well. When I went to his soccer game with his mom and sister recently, we made eye contact a couple of times, but I think that for the most part , we were both too shy to look at eachother. Or do much else. I added him on Facebook, and after doing so, I have noticed his behaviour has changed back to ignoring me (or pretending to?) and being pretty quiet whenever I'm around. Did I freak him out by adding him on Facebook? Or was he expecting us to talk more now? I just don't really kow what to think anymore. I really like him, but we are both shy around people we don't kow very well. He seems to be fine around most of the other girls on my soccer team. He jokes with them and talks to them once in a while. Do I simply completely repulse him? (just kidding... I think...) I just can't figure this out. HELP!I also just saw him at my soccer game yesterday and he basically did the ignoring/completely oblivious to the fact that I existed thing again.Anyway, sorry this was so long. Thanks. Let me know what you think!
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reader, sebaslookingforward  +, writes (19 March 2011):
Im sorry no one answered. I wonder if you are still around. Anyway, I believe you have moved on over 1 and a half years later. Good luck!
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