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writes:I invited my girlfriend to my facebook 3 days ago she still hasn't added me. I noticed after inviting her that her ex is on there. I asked her why she said its nothing. Well she still hasn't accepted me and I told her I'm going to delete my facebook she just said 'ohhh'.What do you think is going on? Something on there like messages she doesn't want me to see or should I not worry?
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 June 2009): suspicious indeed. she doesn't want you in her space - is she going on with someone behind your back. time to perhaps have a firm discussion with her or intercept her password ( i know i am suggestion something wrong here) but what else do you do. you need evidence and you know she is not going to assist you to discover her wrongdoing. maybe befriend her friend who is also on FB and then check things out.to find out if she is doing anything wrong you need to be smarter than her.
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reader, Yos  +, writes (8 June 2009):
 Does sound a bit suspect. There is no 'good' reason why your gf would not want you on her facebook. I would recommend not putting your relationship status on FB, but being listed as a 'friend' is appropriate.
I suggest just asking her outright why she hasn't added you.
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reader, weparley  +, writes (8 June 2009):
"Worry!" ...It's clear to any reader that she doesn't want you to see something on her page.
Facebook and Myspace have caused a lot of relationships to go sore. Personally I hate both of them.
But you need to AND SHOULD worry. Because you have an issue on your hands bro. LOOK INTO IT ASAP!
Forget what others our gong to say ON HERE. What your gf is doing is wrong.
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reader, ilovebowsandcherries  +, writes (8 June 2009):
 this depends are you guys long distance or are you living close?
if its a long distance one then perhaps she does have messages from boys
perhaps she's flirting with other guys and she doesn't want you to see...
try talking to her about it find out why she doesn't want to add you...
maybe some pictures she thinks you may take the wrong way.
who knows but definately better if you talk to her.
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