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writes:i've been dating my boyfriend for 4 years. i cheated on him once and confessed to him and he wanted to work things out. since then i cheated on him one other time with one of his close friends. things were not good between my boyfriend and i and i made a HUGE mistake. i completely regret what i did and it makes me sick to think even about it. it has definately made me realize what i have and i am 100 percent positive i will never cheat again. this is someone i could spend the rest of my life with. i really dont want to tell him because it would break his heart but the guilt is killing me. what should i do?please help! Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 July 2009): i am in the exact same position as u love. exact same, i have been with him 4 years..the 1st time was because he left me in a club on my own...the 2nd time was a close friend of his.....he knows about the first time and every1 but him nose about the second. and guilt is eating me away atm... i want to tell him but i no it will break him...i dont know what to do either...... if you would like to talk please send me a msg... xxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 June 2009): you have cheated twice already. the first time you were sooooooooooooo guilty , the second time, you are feeling sooooooooooooo guilty. don't you see a pattern forming. maybeyou cannot be faithful, and you need to ask yourself why?
yes plse tell him so that if you indeed want to salvage this relationship you both can work things out together. by not telling him, you will just mess up a good r/ship, then you have only yourself to blame. whether it "kills" him or not the only decent thing is to tell him. you owe him that much even though you cannot be faithful to him, at least you can be honest.
good luck
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reader, ilovebowsandcherries  +, writes (8 June 2009):
 you're just going to have to tell him.
and if he feels the same that you guys will be together for many years to come he'll hopefully want to work on this with you.
help you guys through it
make you a stronger couple together.
but you really do have to tell him i mean the longer you put it off the harder it'll become and if it's eating you up this much think of what it could do to you in the long run.
it's not worth making yourself ill over.
just tell him what happend and explain how sorry you are... and that you really can see you guys being together for a really long time...
I hope this helps
x
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