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male
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36-40,
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writes:Ok I have this big problem..I'll try to make it short When i was a kid(8-9yrs old) i use to have sex with my neighbor daughter(she was 11). We continued this for 3 years and then they moved. When i was 8-9 yrs, strange thing is I use to be horny and used to masturbate even though i didn't ejaculate the sperm. How i did was- "lay down on my bed(On my stomach) and move my body as if i was having sex and firmly press my penis on the bed and i used to be satisfied". I didn't changed my habit until i was 20 yrs old. Now it's been 2-3 years i masturbate with my hand(JUst the regular way) So the problem is now when i get a erection my dick bends downwards(i.e there is a curve) and it's not that stiff either. Second problem i have is pre-mature ejaculation. I have tried having sex with 3 different girls and every time i stick my dick all the way in i just Cum. i can't even go 2nd stroke. I think the end of my shaft is sensitive. When ever my dick enters all inside vaginal i come. So i cum on the first move. I don't know that i am having this problem is due to the way i masturbated for so many years or I had sex when i was a kid. I don't have any idea and it bothers me . I regert everyday that wish i had never had sex with this girl and never had masturbated in such a way. BUt this is life and i am living with this. This is the reason i don't make girlfriends coz i feel i wont be able to satisfied them sexually and we have to split. So does anyone have any idea? Has anyone ever heard a smiliar story? or have been through the smiliar case. I don't know what should i do next. Can anyone please suggest me. I want to improve my sexual life.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 June 2009): HJAH no it has nothing to do with your past when you were like eight!
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 June 2009): What you're worried about has nothing whatever to do with the stuff that happened in the past. Nothing.
A curve downward, as you describe, is nothing unusual.
Premature ejaculation has nothing to do with masturbation, or with early sexual encounters.
What you need to do is try to train yourself to hold off. There are hundreds of posts on this site that give advice on how to do that. Spend some time searching through them.
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