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writes:im 13 and there is this 16 year old boy that always wants me to send him dirty pictures and try things with him at the movies .me and my friend really like him he always flirts with us at the movies and stuff two days ago he suggested that we should be friends with benefits do you think we should??? i dont want to go to the movies with him and cuddle with him and my friend that likes him be there and get mad at me
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 June 2009): iam 16 so dont think im some old granny telling u this lol.
hun, dont be friends with benefits. if you and ur friend like this guy then wen one of u end up with him then yous are gonna fight big time and mates before dates dont ever forget. also, this guy will probasbly get what he wants (usually sex) and then ditch u making u feel worthless. dont do it, he wouldnt be worth it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 June 2009): No I don't think you should, because:1. You're too young to be having sex, especially to get involved with the whole FWB thing.2. It sounds like you like him as more than a friend, so you'll only get hurt and will feel used. Also if you turn him down and your friend (after telling her what he asked) still goes after him, tell her to be careful!
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 June 2009): Do what you want to do
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (8 June 2009):
Are you mad?
You want to do sexual stuff with a guy who is clearly using you, AND hurt your best friend behind her back?
Also sending dirty pictures is never EVER a good thing to do. You will be all over the school and all over the internet.
Why wouldn't he show them to all his mates? It'll make him look cool around school and make you look like a slut. No boy is ever going to want to date the girl that everyone else has already seen.
Put your friend first and tell her what this boy has said to you. Then tell him to go and stick it up his arse and wait for a guy who will treat you with some respect.
Don't be so easy!
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, ilovebowsandcherries +, writes (8 June 2009):
 Hun i'd stay off out of this.
friends with benefits isn't cuddling at the cinema
it's doing dirty stuff at the cinema
he doesn't want a relationship with you or your friend he's just looking for sex to be honest with you.
and you shouldn't lower yourself to that standard no way you tell him where to go and make sure your friend knows what he's like before she gets seduced by him.
he's just using you for his needs and that's wrong.
you tell him where to go hun.
you're too young to be getting into that sort of thing anyways and got your whole life ahead of you.
Hope this helps :)
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reader, Denizen +, writes (8 June 2009):
 No. It's illegal and could land him in court. You know the right answer to this already.
Don't let yourself be manipulated by this young perv'.
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