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Advice needed! I don't know whether to stay with him or just move on...

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Question - (8 June 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 8 June 2009)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

ok ill try and make this quick me and my boyfriend have been together nearly 3 years living together as well. he goes out every weekend with his friends while i stay at home i never get to see my friends and if i do then it has to be during the day, he accuses me all the time and calls me names but who doesnt? we have good times and bad times but lately ive been feeling like im the only one making an effort we both have our good points and bad points but i just feel that he doesnt want to be in a serious relationship, he has been hinting bout getting getting married for two years but then turns round and says why would any one wanna marry you, hes always putting me down and letting me down i try talking to him but he turns it into an argument,

Should i stay in hope that he changes which he promised to do but hasn't or move on and find a man that wants to be in a commited relationship please help

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A reader, anonymous, writes (8 June 2009):

Girl... you should find somebody else. He sounds so mean to you. nobody deserves that shit. you deserve better. Find someone who treats you right and loves you... Im so sick of seeing girls being walked on by guys all the time... its sad. You KNOW deep down you can do better... just get some courage and be single for awhile until the right man comes along eventually he will and you will be so happy that you didnt pursue this relationship.

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