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writes:i dont feel pretty enough to deserve to be loved , they say its the inside that counts if that was true then i'd have someone by now right? im so lost and confused no one wants me the person i like just likes me as a friend sucha cliche. i need your help. im sick of crying over guys and well every person i like not liking me back Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 July 2009): I know how that is I'm in the same situation as you. I like this guy and he see me ask a freind. So what you got to do is first of all be yourself second flirt a little with them to make them think of you as more then a freind.
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reader, holikdad  +, writes (9 June 2009):
"Come naked, bring beer." - Jeff Foxworthy
Hopefully that got a laugh out of you.
I get so frustrated by the number of young people on this site who are stressing over the small stuff. Focus on your grades and career, trust me the rest will come on its own.
Make sure to participate in outside activities, join clubs, or a church and participate in their functions. You'll catch someone's eye and he'll let you know that he's interested.
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reader, *problems* +, writes (8 June 2009):
 you need to think about yourself !! dont let what others think about you get you down!, if they dont like you thats there loss they obiously dont appriciate what they see ,, my mum told me that you need to learn to love yourself x
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 June 2009): try hittin the gym and wearing some nice clothes and makeup
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 June 2009): Be sure you are liking the right guys for the right reasons.
If you're liking the football stars who get along with everyone and walk around constantly seeing someone they know, then you are not likely to get as much attention from them as you desire.
If you are liking the guys who are sincerely nice to you and seem to care about the way you feel and do nice things and don't disrespect you, then you are more on a realistic page. If a guy doens't treat you well then there really is no reason to like him.
You just have to be yourself. You shouldn't change yourself so that guys will like you: you should be just who you are and wait for the guy who wants only that. It is way too much effort and stress to try to be someone else in a relationship. You will be happiest as yourself. You are still very young and have tons of time so don't let this get you down now. I know how you feel, but high school boys aren't even worth this pain. They have not really grown up yet in my opinion.
Wait till you meet a real man in college or after college who knows who he is and is willing to love you for who you are. Be patient Love and concentrate on your friends, schoolwork, family, and being happy..
~SY.
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reader, marie1982 +, writes (8 June 2009):
hi girl its true what they say its on the inside that counts but i bet ur a very pretty girl on the out side to every girl is its because when u put urself down u feel like everyone does to i know ive bn there girl but look hard in a mirror n see the beauty of the person inside and out as soon as u get the confidents ull get da guys and on the guy note look for something different not wot u norm go for that what i did n im happy wiv 4 kids n i know it a hard time in ur life coz ur still a teenager but wait for love to come to u and stop puttin urself down n ull pull them in in no time! so wipe those tears away n be happy put ur make up on n show the world ur the girl everyone wants if u get me have fun girl n im ere if u want any more advise
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