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writes:I lived with my boyfriend for 5+ years. About 6 months ago I decided to move out and into my own place. He would not work and I paid all the bills. I finally could not deal with it anymore and moved out. He still calls all the time and stops by. Sometimes he spends the night. But the problem is I cant stand to have sex with him. It just sickins me to no end. When he touches me, I just cringe! I have tried to tell him not to call me or stop by anymore, but he always seems to come back again. And when I do tell him I dont want to see him anymore, then I start to feel guilty, and think ok, he can come by. But almost immediately when he walks through that door, I almost cant stand him. Should I just call this thing off once and for all and get over the guilt and feeling sorry for him? I really can not stand him to touch me, and once again I start to feel bad for rejecting him. Any advice?
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reader, QuirkLady +, writes (9 June 2009):
 Take control of yourself. He comes back because you let him. He can tell that you are weak since you keep opening that door time after time. You don't have to feel guilty since you gave him a chance to get it together and he didn't.
Call it off, lock the door and don't answer any of his calls. You can do better than this!
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 June 2009): Well, take control, you moved out for a good reason, you don't want him to touch you, I think you know it is over. So, it is over. Tell him. Get on with your life. You get what you put up with!
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