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My negativity is pushing her away and I cant lose her!

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Question - (8 June 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 8 June 2009)
A male United States age 41-50, *unt3r writes:

I've been with my girlfriend/best friend for close to a year. She is, by a long shot, the best thing to ever enter my life. Im 28 and I just now found love. The problem and my question is I get so paranoid that she will find someone else. I used to never be like that and we had so much fun then I changed I guess. Also I will pick fights over nothing because I think she is mad at me. I wont let her have a bad day or something without turning it into a fight. I cant lose her and my negativity is pushing her away. I cant lose this one somebody please help.

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A male reader, holikdad United States +, writes (8 June 2009):

She may be cheating on you and your subconscious is reacting that way. Or you could have change physically, gained weight, lost hair, or something. If that's the case then work on slimming down, or change hair styles.

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A female reader, Gabbrielle1221 United Kingdom +, writes (8 June 2009):

Gabbrielle1221 agony auntHello... you seem to have got yourself in a piggeldy situation there. I think the best thing to do is say 3 things to her in morning that you really like about her. Also make her feel loved.... romantic dinner spoil her let her know you love her and want to spend the rest of your life with her. If you really love her.. why dont you get engaged????????????

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