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41-50,
*unna_you
writes:hi, I just got married to a beautiful lady about 6 months back.. my wife is a good looking 25 year professional.. I am 30 years old.. recently my cousin brother joined us in our house, he is 16.. so he trying to date a girl...so he asked my wife if he could take my wife out for dinner, so that it would like a mock-date for him and he would know how to deal with the girl in a real life situation; my wife agreed.. 2 days later he took her to a date at a high end restaurant.. My wife was wearing a skimpy dress, when they went to restaurant, my cousin ordered wine and both of them had 2 glasses each, then my cousin asked her for a dance.. where my wife agreed? it was a ballroom dance, so my wife was kind of teaching him to place the hands at the right place; he then placed his fingers on her back and kept tickling her back.. after dance they ate dinner and he drove home, just as they were about to reach home, he asked my wife that how would he know if his real date was interested or not..my wife replied go for a kiss, if she responds to it, she is interested for the next level..Well as they got home and they were about to park the car, my cousin leaned forward to kiss her (she was slighty drunk at this stage), he came really close to her lips.. she began giggling and pushed him..I was not present, this is what my wife told me.. now I am thinking maybe my cousin was trying for my wife.. when I told her to stay away, she thinks I am overeacting and he is just a kid.. what should I do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 June 2009): 16 or not, this guy is trouble. he made a move deliberately and would have actually had sex with your wife if she let him. he has no respect for you or your marriage so please steer clear of him. do not allow people who violate your trust into your home space. he needs to know tht he over stepped the line and you need to be firm with him.
in future, no matter how good your intentions are, plse do not allow your wife to go out on other dates. i know if someone asked my hb to allow me to go out on a mock date what the answer would be. . ..i know it would start with: F*cking hell, no............
plse do not tolerate marital disrespect......your 16 yr old cousin has to go. NOW.
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reader, QuirkLady  +, writes (9 June 2009):
 Your cousin is already quite the player, LOL.
Well, just don't let them have any more dates. He had his practice date, and now it's over. See if he goes out on dates now or keeps hanging around your wife. If he starts going out on dates with girls his own age let it go. However, if he asks your wife out again put your foot down.
Good luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 June 2009): man what were yuo doing for heavens sake!!
they were drunk she'd put his hands on her but their bodies were touchign wha tod you thnk has happened
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