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I can't bring myself to kiss her. Help me guys

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Question - (8 June 2009) 4 Answers - (Newest, 11 June 2009)
A male United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Hi there

I am really nervous,, I am going to the cinema on saturday with a girl i like and we are going with some mates. Well ive never kissed anyone properly before and im really worried because i think she has and i dont want to look like an idiot. Im not that brave either i cant bring myself to kiss her because i think ill make a prat of myself. I really need help :(

Thanks in advance

Regards

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A female reader, iSmil3y United States +, writes (11 June 2009):

If you don't tell her, then she won't know. Just be calm, you'll know what to do once you're already kissing her. Trust me.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (10 June 2009):

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well thanks :) its just i dont want to tell her ive never kissed anyone? Will she know when we do?

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A female reader, iSmil3y United States +, writes (9 June 2009):

There is no right or wrong way to kiss a girl. If you really want to kiss her, then just do it. Once you actually start kissing her, you'll be able to go right along with it and you'll know what to do.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (8 June 2009):

The same thing happened to me not that long ago. You don't need to worry about not being able to kiss. All it takes is one leader and the other can follow. I had never kissed a girl before, but when I did, she led me and it was just natural. Besides, if you like each other, then she is not going to care how good of a kisser you are. You can always improve with practice :) Just wait for the right moment and lean in. If you are still too nervous to try that, then try talking to her before. You could have the "boundaries" talk and mention kissing in it and see what she says on the subject. That's what I did, and the rest is history. Hope this helps

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