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female
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30-35,
*eartbroken-xx
writes:I am stuck in the middle between three guys. I am going to give you all a piece of information and my feelings regarding each of them. The rest is up to you my Aunt's to help me. Thank you for ALL that take the time to actually read this, and thank you in advance..THIS ONE WILL BE LONG!Guy 1 - We started dating on November 16th 08. We basically hit it off from there. The problem was he didn't live in my hometown. We tried our best to stick with the long distance relationship and make our short time together the best as possible. His best time = LOTS OF SEX! He stayed in my hometown all of January. After he left, All of Febuary, March and April we constantly fought. Our relationship fell apart at the seams, but we scrabbled with every piece, trying to hold it together, but it just didn't work out. Our break up was horrible. We dealt with it immaturely, called eachother every name in the book. It even went as far as involving other people to 'deal' with eachother. (it never happened though)My feelings have always been there for him, but at the end of April we finally called it quits. All in all - I fell in love. He came into town lastnight. I tried not to burst into tears when I saw him, we talked about the past, and then kissed numerous times, he came to say goodbye to me this morning as well, before he left town. He is moving to my town at the end of June, and although I know it's going to be alot of drama - I don't think I will be able to bring myself to stay away.Connection = Intimate.Guy 2 - I met him about two months ago. He is really sweet, and butters everything up so sweet. He is almost to good to be true. When we first started 'seeing eachother' we had alot of deep talks. I was under the impression that we liked eachother alot, but after everything that happened with Guy 1, I had alot of trust, insecurity issues. Guy 2 didn't have the patience to nuture my every need, which is understandable. I am alot of work. So we decided to call it quits and move on. Well just recently, we have started talking again - this time he has a girlfriend. He told me he loves me and is willing to break up with his girlfriend for me..Connection = EmotionalLAST BUT NOT LEASTGuy 2 - I will get this out in the open RIGHT away. He currently thinks we are in a relationship. He just got out of one, and I am stuck in basically three. He just asked me out lastnight, and it was kind of 'out of the blue' I have always had feelings for him, but they were always kind of pushed to the side, because of Guy 1 and Guy 2. I know he would probably make me alot happier then Guy 1 and Guy 2, but I don't think my feelings are strong enough for him to make a desicion yet.Connection = LustBasically, well writting this.. I have come to the conclusion that I want to be with Guy 3. But I don't know how to tell Guy 1 and Guy 2, because they both think I love them, which I am sure I do, and I don't want to cut them off.. but I want to be happy as well..In this case, I still need your help..
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reader, mimisoph3  +, writes (8 June 2009):
 guy number one seems like trouble..u guys fought and broke up dramatically then when u guys saw each other u kept kissing him.to me he seems like no matter wat he'll do u'll always be running back and i'm sure his not gonna take the relationship serious if his acting childish. its all up to u
guy number two sees too perfect to be true.he loves u deeply and he would break up wit his girlfriend for u.which means u mean alot to him,i understand u guys falling apart because u had feelings for guy 1(trouble)
guy number three-if u have alot of feels for guy number three then there u go ur problem is solved be wit guy number three tell guy number one that ur not going back to the roller coaster tell guy number two that he should stay wit his girlfriend because u dont love them
at the end of your jearneyy u have to decide in the end who u want to be wit who u feel safe wit and who u feel u can trust i think guy number 3 is perfect for u but the question is is that are u gonna be perfect for him.are u gonna not go back to guy number 1 or 2 are u gonna commite and be happy to where ur putting urself into..good luck
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