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writes:Well... Im thinking about breaking up with my boyfriend who has latly really got on my nerves... But the things is im really bad at breaking up a realation ship, i like dont have the confidence this probly sounds stupid but i feel really bad and i dont know i just can do it... We've been together 3 months today... but weve had a realation ship before this one were we was together 2 months and just over one week... so i guess altogether we've been together 5 months and a bit, with a l break in the middle, and just latly, i have been thinking and i think i have lost what i felt for him... I was supposed to go round his on friday but i made a excuse up so i didnt have too i dont understand why i just didnt want to go round.Are realationship is kind of secret... well supose to be... i wanted to keep it a secret for a bit while i sort something out to hard to explain but i wanted to sort things out before i got with him but he promised we could keep it secret because he really wants to be wth me now.. so i got with him, but i havnt sorted the things out yet so its still supose to be secret but he broke his promise and has told loads and loads and loads of people its stupid when he promised he wouldnt and its winding me up also, he keeps trying to make me tell people and i said no i havnt sorted things out yet and he gets like mad... but i told him we shouldnt get together untill i have sorted thigns out ... so surly he has to respect i did say that before we got to gether right so whys he doing this ? its really irratating :( do you think i should end it ?and if so how, what can i say to end it how can i get more confidence i dont like ending ralationships but i dont think i want to be in this one anymore help please ?
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reader, yum yum  +, writes (22 February 2009):
 I guess he is soo proud to be with you and thats why he has told many people because he is soo happy he cant keep his feelings a secret from everybody, however he should have resisted and kept it a secret for you. If your not happy with him anymore tell him sorry that he is a great person and stuff but that you dont have feelings for him and therfore want to end the relationship. Tell him that you would like to remain friends and also say that he is good looking and will find another girl friend easely. Take care!
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