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female
age
41-50,
*exy big sis
writes:I have a problem guys and i need your help. I am with a lovely guy well I thought he was. anyway he seems to want to change me and stop me going out with the girls or any of my mates for that matter. If i do go out he appears from nowhere and says he was out with his mate and didn`t realise i was out( unlikely story) . He has to be glued to my side and always asking me where i am going and why i am trying my hardest to get away from him. He hates any other male talking to me or being anywhere near me. Ahhhhhh
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (22 February 2009):
Yep this guy has serious issues. He either can't trust you or just wants to control you.
Either way he's only going to get worse over time.
Any man who tries to stop you going out is NEVER a good man to be in a relationship with.
Tell him that if he doesn't stop trying to stop you seeing your friends then it is over for good. If he does it again then walk away and never speak to him again.
Do you know that this is a classic first symptom of a wife beater? They will isolate their girl from everyone so that when they do her down and hit her, she feels she has no where else to go.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, Griffo  +, writes (22 February 2009):
 Yep he has true issues!!! He's likley afraid you will cheat on him. He also does not want to give you any opportunity to speak to any other guy. He sees when your with your friends that it's an opportunity for you to flirt with other guys through them. I know it's very sad. So the reason why he's "following" you is because he's affraid.
Solution:
You need to sit him down and talk to him and be upfront and strong about it. You need to tell him how you felabout this and whatbyou think and that if he keeps doing it he could lose you (something along those lines).
Good luck!! Let me know how you go :)
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