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anonymous
writes:Hello guys me and my best friend argued not too long ago.. So anyway i argue with her cuz i left due to an argument with my GF and they had no sign of me for 2 weeks..(me and her broke up) So anyway i come back and my best friend left me tons of messages on msn being pissed at me and all so anyway this guy whom me and my best friend known is back within the two weeks i was gone so anyway i see them too alot closer.. eventually me and my best friend argued i told her about how i started not to like the guy.. so she explains to me that he was besides her while i was gone for two weeks.. And said that i didn't message her back on msn to say if i was alive or that if i had died.. So now the guy and her hang out alot and she tells me she and him got close.. Cuz i wasn't here that he was the only guy he coulda run to.. Anyway we argued today and her she has a stepdaughter and she's sick so that she has too much to do and that's why she's always away from keyboard while on msn.. So i told her how if elt completely about how she's my best friend and that i help her when in need and that she means alot to me.. She tells me that she and him are close but that me and her will never become ememies that me and her are best friends.. But that she is tired of having to prove that to me.. That when she's down instead of me giving him comfort we just argue and claims i am mad when i am not.. all i want to know is the truth... I mean while her and i was talking she and him was also talking on msn.. and that the guys pissed at me for not bieng there for her.. I am hurt i mean we been best friends for 2 years.. She told me that i have to work hard to get us back on track.. some of my other friends said that if i am her best friend that i don't need to work for anything that if i am her best friend that she should forgive me regardless.. And we been arguing for like 3 weeks about her and this guy.. so guys sorry for making this a long story but what do u think about this i need advice guys thanks and much love
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reader, kellyxxx  +, writes (27 February 2009):
 People can have more than one friend so there should be no need for jealousy. You need to work to get back on track, friendships don't just happen, they need to be continuously worked on. You both sound wrong in the situation! To be honest I couldn't really understand your question as it isn't written in proper sentences, it isn't clear and there are spelling mistakes which affect the meaning. If you could re-write the problem I could help further but at the minute I can only give a vague answer. X
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