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reader, Tuyen +, writes (22 February 2009):
 Gift - It depends what she likes, thats where listening comes in, boy ;) Girls love a great listener. If you're bored, at least act like you're listening lol.
Be adoreable, but not too soppy. Compliment her, tell her how nice she looks (even if she's just woke up and her hair looks like a bird's nest lol). If she has a new hairstyle - compliment her on it, it shows that you noticed, and that you care enough to notice.
Girls like someone who can make them laugh (whatever you do, don't make a joke about her).
Sex wise - Don't be selfish in bed. When you're done, it doesn't neccisarily mean that she is too. Women like it when you cherish them, during sex, cherish their bodies. Kiss her all over, and say sweet things to her, tell her how much you admire her body. It makes her feel special - Girls thrive on feeling special.
Got to have foreplay. It makes sex that bit more exciting and pleasureable. Guys love oral sex, but women like it too, stud ;)
Surprises - Girls do like flowers and chocolate, but that's kind of what every guy does. That's not good because it shows that you haven't really thought about it. This is where listening really does come in. If she says that she likes something, then surprise her with it. Get her jewellry,clothes, whatever you think she likes.
If you do surprise her with something she likes, it shows that you care. Women find it hard to find a nice, genuine guy who cares.
I hope this helps.
Take care
Tuyen =) x
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reader, lovelynightmare  +, writes (22 February 2009):
 Ok, I'm a guy. Shoot me. But after three relationships, and talking to women, I have observed some patterns in what they like.
Gift- something not too spendy but inventive and thoughtful (if you know her friends, ask their opinions).
Surprise- Unexpected flowers, surprise birthdays, roll with the punches on this one.
General- Someone whom they can trust the most, count on to sacrifice and make sacrifices, good looks, intelligence, cracks good jokes now and then (don't ask me for any jokes, I suck at that part).
Bed- Never "done it" but researched and read magazine articles about it, her peace of mind, a little foreplay and lube can go a long way.
lovelynightmare
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 February 2009): Gift: Suprise her with flowers or a little box of her favorite candy, or a board game to play (melts my heart to think of a guy doing this for me)
Suprise: A big, random kiss that I'm totally not expecting.
General: I agree...LISTEN TO US and let us know you ARE!
In bed: we're all different. Figure it out on your own. lol
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reader, bettynotsweaty +, writes (22 February 2009):
gift = flowers generally, unless you are out and she says something like 'i'd love'. the best present i ever got was a pair of earrings an ex bought me, after persuading me not to buy them because we were in a rush. it shows you are listening (see below).
surprises = always, unless it is parties, or the girl in question has ptsd and doesnt like shocks. also doesnt really work for birthdays/valentines etc, because, well, it shouldnt be a surprise.
generally = be complimentary and chivalrous, and good with surprise gifts. LISTEN for gods sake.
bed = every girl is different. again, be VERY complimentary, NO SURPRISES, and if it all goes horribly wrong, giggle.
dont take yourself to seriously, young casanova!
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