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writes:This guy I met 2 months ago. Since the beginning he seem to like me and he was Ok to me. It happens I entered as a contractor in his office, so he started working with me helping me a lot in what I did.We even talked about paying him commission over him helping me out. We got along pretty well, until yesterday when he didn't answered my calls and when I finally could talked to him and he was a bit awkward and kinda rude. I know he's been having trouble b/c of this help he's doing but he said no problem. I want him to be friends again.What can I say or do in order not to loose his friendship since I know I've been pushing too much on him? Reply to this Question
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reader, bettynotsweaty  +, writes (22 February 2009):
apologise, and sort YOUR problems out (why did you need this guy's help so much with your work?).
check it is actually something you did that upset him (maybe his dog just died)
maybe give him a little help back?
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 February 2009): communicate your feelings to him. Tell him that business is business, but when you both are on your own time, it's a different story. Let him know you want him as a friend (or more?) Be open and honest with him!
I wish you luck!
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