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writes:my husband is opsessed with women of all types porn celibrities, calendar girls. he watches naked girls on line early morning then come and has sex with me makes me feel like he need them to turn him on and I am just a filler. I am getting breast implants for bigger breast for him to enjoy so what he does is go and look and chics with big boobs . what the hell. we have a great sex life . but it gets me real mad and very insecured . I am a preety women very petite and see no reason why he should look at others. It makes me feel like I am never good enough for him always need improvement . Is it me or is he a sex manniac? I am ready to leave him even though I love him cause I can't take it any more. when I tell him how it makes me feel it is always my fault I am the insecured one and that I need help what can I do. and don't tell me to ignore it cause this is every day and even when he is at work or driving in the car.I have enough it makes me sick to my stomach and major headaches
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 February 2009): I'm a woman and I like porn... I know for a fact that some of the other aunts are pornography supporters too. But your guy is too extreme.. porn should be a sideline hobby, like watching TV or reading a good book. But you want to destroy your natural beauty, because the woman you are is not enough. Please don't do the surgery, it won't make him happy for very long. I'm surprised that Auntie Gina, hasn't already identified that this is a guy with some big serious sexual problems, that are definitely ruining your life.Solution: Leave this guy, he's sick and he has sexual issues that are difficult to deal with. Surgery will make you feel bad, especially when you find it makes no difference to his liking for pornography. Please encourage him to find a counsellor, especially one that is experienced in sexual excess. Your guy has a very bad relationship with sex, and if you follow his demands you will destroy yourself. He needs to see a doctor, because nothing will every satisfy him, this is a guy who uses pornography in the wrong way, and I'm a supporter of porn.Leave him, he's destroyed your self esteem and your confidence enough, he's a very strange man, and needs psychological help.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 February 2009): I know alot of men who are like this and it's mainly because they are either impotent or have their own sexual hangups. Fear of not feeling manly enough.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 February 2009): Firstly, don't go getting a boob job just to please him. If you absolutely must have one, do it for yourself and no-one else. I wouldn't recommend it though. Chances are once you've got big tits he'll start looking at little ones and then what? If you'd had your boobs surgically removed it would be a different matter if you were having reconstructive surgery.
Some blokes don't know when they are well off. If he's not happy with you the way you are what's the point in carrying on with him? He's making you feel ill. Leave him and find someone that really appreciates you for what you are, without having to go under the knife. That is just so stupid an idea! Don't do it, it's not worth the pain or the expense and it won't change your marriage for the better. Is not what's inside you more important than external appearances or the size of your tits?
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reader, yum yum  +, writes (22 February 2009):
 I Believe that your husband is a sex manniac indeed. However it is natural for men to fantasise over other women. That does not mean he is not loyal to you. However he is not respecting you with his actions. You should have a chat with him and tell him how you feel. If he does not change his actions, you then should make him understand th since that means he does not really love you otherwise he would not do what he is doing. He should know better. The way you are feeling is natural if yourhusband is bahaving the way he is. Take care!.
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