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anonymous
writes:I'm 15 living in Nottingham and I'm in a really difficult situation that I don't know how to resolve.I went to a house party the other day at my best m8s house. Before I went it was kinda common knowledge that I liked his sister (even he knew) but was cool with it. She is incredible a real bad girl but I love that short brown hair with red in but she's 20 however my best actually told me before they were looking through picture before and she pointed me out and said I was really fit. So I thought I try to get to know her better at this party. But during the party another girl like my age was all over me and made out with me she obviously saw and now I thought I've blown it.Unfortunately aswell I found out on the night she is kindof in an on off relationship with this 50 year old guy!? who's the lead singer of a band. However after everyone had gone me her my best m8 and a few other girls were up talking like the whole night. She was saying like how weird it was like being the other woman and I could tell we had a spark as we stayed up talking like the whole night and she even admitted she thought I was really fit aswell.I'm crazy about her and when our eyes meet I know its a bit corny but theres something amazing there I think i'm falling in love with her. I know i'm 15 but i've done everything apart from sex itself. So what do I do?I've never liked girls my age that much anyway.Is the 5 age gap too much? Plus what should I do about the girl my age who's calling me and saying we should get together some time?Help Please.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 February 2009): Thankyou both of you but I've actually turned down sex twice before with 2 girls of my age. I just feel so strongly for this girl, is it wrong for me to try and make someone
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (22 February 2009):
Hun, if she has sex with you, then she is likely to be put on the sex offenders register. She is too old for you and I very much doubt she will want a relationship with you as you are still a child, no matter how "fit" you are.
As for the other girl you have to be honest with her and tell her you like someone else and don't want to hurt her. Don't keep her as Plan B as that is just not fair.
Go and get your head straight and try and get over your mate's sister.
Good Luck!! xx
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