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writes:So, recently I wrote about my premature ejaculation problem. I am in my early 20's and after about a minute of intercourse I can't hold it any longer which really upsets me. I want to please her but a minute is hardly enough. Some said to do it again but once I cum I go very soft. Then some said to do other things on her like "go down on her, finger her" etc, however she's not into any of that. She only likes normal face to face sex which is fine with me cuz I love her but how am I supposed to please her then? I've tried almost anything I guess "thinking of other things, breathing techniques, pinching". I don't even care that I cum fast but I'd like to keep going to make her feel good but can't do that with no erraction. It's a really bad feeling not being able to please someone you love so if you have any solution please help me.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 February 2009): Personally. I find that if you can remove the thought of Ejaculating then you can go for as long as you want. Practice this while masterbating.Losen your butt cheeks. Honestly the more you worry about it the faster your done. I dont recommend thinking about sports, but think of something that will absolutely keep your mind off busting. But I find that techno music is a big help, because I like the music and I love dancing so I find myself having sex to it and almost forgetting about her because I feel like Im dancing and still pleasing her EveryTime because I last forever and I go with the beat witch is fast.=) hope I could be of help.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 February 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks very much! I really hope that the technique you told me will work. You are a ton of help... By the way how do you know so much about this? Have you dealt with PE?
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 February 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWell For sure I want to be with her because we love eachother, but I agree that we should be able to talk about things like mature people. And you are right she has not masturbated nor had a proper orgasm. I will bring it up to her and see how she reacts.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 February 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionShe will never get used to giving/getting oral sex for sure. She gets real worked up(in a bad way) if we even just talk about it. I would have no problem giving it to her but she does not want it. She's really old fashioned and her ex's have done pretty bad things to her so i guess that's the main reason.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 February 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you for taking so much time on my questions and trying to help me, I really aprechiate it.She hates condoms so we don't use any. She gets freaked out by some things like condoms, oral sex, some positions etc... Most of it has to do with bad experiences from her past. She's really sweet but very sensitive and i'd do anything for her, I just feel like i let her down with the lack of enjoyment she receives. She says it's really good and it doesn't bother her that i cum so soon but she also would like it longer.The feeling is most intense when i am penetrating her because her walls wrap around my penis and put pressure on it. Once i go deeper the skin get pulled and that also makes it intense. This is why it's really hard.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 February 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI've tried that, but when i am inside my girlfriend it is impossible because she's not loose at all so it puts a lot of pressure on my penis. I can go a little bit but then i have to pull out. Last night we've done it and i just kept going but it has lost i'd say 60-70% of it's erection.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 February 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questiondepends on where i place my hand but yes
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 February 2009): You'll have to go see your GP and ask him for a solution, if you haven't already try a penis ring, they're great.
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