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Help in masturbation...

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Question - (22 February 2009) 3 Answers - (Newest, 19 March 2009)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

This is a little embarrassing, but I need answers! I'm 19, have NEVER masturbated before in my life but I'm not a virgin (I've only had one partner) and the guy I'm with now doesn't believe in sex before marriage. I like him a LOT and I can see myself with him for a long time, so that's basically why I'm highly respectful of his beliefs. He also knows of the fact that I'm not a virgin and he's respectful of that, too. He even encourages me to play with myself because he knows he can't help out right now.

Anyway, I do know what sex feels like and I really enjoy it. Since I can't share that feeling with my boyfriend, I want to know how to actually masturbate. I am a "normal" young woman who does get horny from time to time and I do have the occasional need to look at porn. But other than just looking at it, I want to be able to stimulate myself while looking at porn.

Any suggestions?

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (19 March 2009):

this might help too. try to explore a while with your fingers and try to find your g-spot. I know on my girl friend it more than triples the pleasure yet helps satisfy her needs. the best way to find out how your body is is with your own fingers. after you find yourself out then us toys on the areas you like the most and do what's good for you

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A reader, anonymous, writes (23 February 2009):

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Thanks to both repliers! I definitely appreciate the advice! And I will definitely try out what you two have suggested! Thanks again! =]

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A male reader, massdestruction3 United States +, writes (22 February 2009):

massdestruction3 agony auntStimulate your clitorus and maybe get some dildos or a vibrator, google 'how to masturbate' and that will help a lot, touch yourself and see what feels good and keep doing it.

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